The Intelligent Conversationalist

1. Master the Art of Intelligent Conversation

Because whether we admit it or not, all of us, at all times, prefer to be never knowingly short of an opinion.

Be Prepared, Not Perfect. Intelligent conversation isn't about knowing everything, but about being informed and articulate. It's about having a foundation of knowledge that allows you to engage confidently, even if you don't have all the answers. This book provides "cheat sheets" to help you quickly grasp key concepts across various subjects.

Cunning Linguist. Avoid filler words like "you know" and "like," which signal a lack of knowledge or laziness. Instead, strive to be a "cunning linguist," someone who uses language precisely and effectively. This involves expanding your vocabulary and being mindful of your grammar and spelling.

Opinion is King. It's not about being right all the time, but about having an opinion and being able to articulate it. Intelligent conversationalists are never short of an opinion, and they know how to express it clearly and concisely. This book will help you develop those opinions.

2. Navigate the Nuances of Language

England and America are separated by a common language.

Spelling and Grammar Matter. In the age of spell-check, basic errors are unforgivable. Mistakes in spelling and grammar can undermine your credibility and make you appear less intelligent. Pay attention to commonly confused words and grammatical rules.

Understand the Differences. English and American English have significant differences in vocabulary and usage. Be aware of these differences to avoid misunderstandings and unintended offense. For example, "quite pretty" in British English can mean "not very pretty."

Impress and Deflect. Learn impressive words and one-liners to enhance your communication and deflect verbal attacks. These tools can help you buy time, change the subject, or gracefully exit a conversation you'd rather not be in.

3. Conquer Math and Economic Jargon

The only function of economic forecasting is to make astrology look respectable.

Relevant Math and Economics. You don't need to be a math whiz to engage in intelligent conversations about finance. Focus on understanding relevant concepts like inflation, deflation, tax, and exchange rates. This book provides a quick guide to these topics.

History of Money. Understand the evolution of money from barter to fiat currency. This knowledge will help you grasp the current financial system and its inherent complexities. The book also touches on the rise of Bitcoin and its potential impact.

Case Studies. Learn from the successes and failures of notorious business figures like Warren Buffett, Bernie Madoff, and Oprah Winfrey. These case studies provide real-life tips on what to do and what not to do with your money.

4. Understand the World's Religions

Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by the rulers as useful.

Similarities and Differences. Recognize the common threads and key differences between major religions. Judaism, Christianity, and Islam are Abrahamic, while Hinduism, Buddhism, and Sikhism are Dharmic. Understanding these connections can foster tolerance and respect.

Key Beliefs and Practices. Familiarize yourself with the main beliefs, practices, and holidays of major religions. This knowledge will help you avoid cultural faux pas and engage in respectful conversations with people of different faiths.

Religion as No Excuse. Understand that religion is often used as an excuse for bad behavior. Be prepared to challenge those who use religion to justify intolerance, violence, or discrimination.

5. Grasp the Essentials of History

The farther back you can look, the farther forward you are likely to see.

History Explains the Present. History is crucial for understanding why we are in the state we are in. This book provides concise overviews of key historical events, from American beginnings to the world wars and the Middle East.

American History. Learn the basics of American history, including the Puritans, the American Revolution, slavery, and the Civil Rights movement. This knowledge is essential for anyone wanting to understand the United States.

British Royals and Global Conflicts. Understand the British monarchy, the world wars, and the complexities of the Middle East. These topics are essential for understanding global politics and international relations.

6. Decipher the Complexities of Politics

A conservative is a politician who wants to keep what the liberals fought for a generation ago.

The American Constitution. Understand the basic principles of the American Constitution, including the separation of powers, checks and balances, and the amendment process. This knowledge is essential for understanding American politics.

Political Scandals and Elections. Learn about political scandals and election jargon. This will help you navigate political discussions and understand the dynamics of American politics.

Political Jargon. Deconstruct jargon in American politics and learn solid election talking points. This will help you engage in political discussions with confidence and clarity.

7. Explore the Globe with Confidence

There are no foreign lands; it is the traveler only who is foreign.

Global Awareness. In today's globalized world, it's essential to have a basic understanding of geography. This book provides maps and information to help you navigate the world with confidence.

Key Locations. Learn about key locations, including Brunei, Oman, Amman, Austria, Australia, Oakland, Auckland, Switzerland, Sweden, Toronto, Paraguay, and Uruguay. Knowing the difference between these places will help you avoid embarrassing mistakes.

Climate Change. Understand the basics of climate change and be prepared to discuss it intelligently. This is a crucial topic in today's world, and it's important to be informed about the science and the debate.

8. Delve into the Realities of Biology

Though I am grateful for the blessings of wealth, it hasn’t changed who I am. My feet are still on the ground. I’m just wearing better shoes.

Sex and Gender. Understand the complexities of sex and gender, including contraception, abortion, feminism, and LGBTQ issues. These are important topics in today's world, and it's essential to be informed and respectful.

Life and Death. Explore the fundamental questions of life and death, including the death penalty and the concept of the afterlife. These are complex and sensitive topics, and it's important to approach them with thoughtfulness and empathy.

Personal is Political. Recognize that personal experiences and beliefs often shape our views on these topics. Be open to different perspectives and engage in respectful dialogue.

9. Appreciate the Nuances of Culture

There are no facts, only interpretations.

The Arts. Familiarize yourself with notable authors, artists, and composers. This knowledge will help you engage in conversations about culture and the arts.

Theater and Awards Season. Learn about theater and awards season conversation. This will help you navigate social situations and engage in discussions about popular culture.

Cultural Nuances. Understand that culture is subjective and that there are many different interpretations of art and entertainment. Be open to different perspectives and avoid making sweeping generalizations.

Last updated: February 3, 2025