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So You're Thinking About Homeschooling

So You're Thinking About Homeschooling

Fifteen Families Show How You Can Do It
by Lisa Whelchel 2003 208 pages
3.73
500+ ratings
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Key Takeaways

1. Homeschooling is a Flexible and Personalized Educational Approach

"Every child is truly different. There is no one right way to homeschool."

Customized Learning Experience. Homeschooling allows parents to create a unique educational approach that adapts to each child's individual needs, interests, and learning pace. Unlike traditional schooling, homeschooling provides the flexibility to adjust teaching methods, curriculum, and schedule to maximize a child's potential.

Flexible Approaches Include:

  • Traditional textbook methods
  • Online academies
  • Unit studies
  • Unschooling
  • Classical education
  • Eclectic approaches combining multiple methods

Adapting to Family Dynamics. Homeschooling can be particularly beneficial for families with unique circumstances, such as:

  • Frequent relocation
  • Special needs children
  • Children with learning differences
  • Families with unconventional work schedules

2. Every Family's Homeschooling Journey is Unique

"The face of a homeschooling family is often changing, and the makeup is even harder to describe."

Diverse Homeschooling Families. There is no "typical" homeschooling family. Families come from various backgrounds, religious beliefs, economic situations, and educational philosophies. What unites them is the desire to provide a personalized and meaningful education for their children.

Family Variations Include:

  • Single parents
  • Working parents
  • Multigenerational households
  • Traveling families
  • Families with multiple children
  • Families with a single child

Evolving Approaches. Homeschooling methods can change year to year based on:

  • Children's developmental stages
  • Family circumstances
  • Educational goals
  • Learning styles
  • Available resources

3. Socialization is Not a Barrier to Homeschooling

"When asked if socialization was a problem for her family, she answered, 'We did tend to oversocialize when we first started homeschooling, but I think we have it under control now.'"

Rich Social Experiences. Contrary to common misconceptions, homeschooled children often have diverse and meaningful social interactions. Homeschooling provides opportunities for:

  • Interaction with people of various ages
  • Participation in community activities
  • Involvement in sports and clubs
  • Cooperative learning groups
  • Field trips and shared experiences

Quality Over Quantity. Homeschooling allows children to develop social skills in more intentional and positive environments, focusing on:

  • Meaningful relationships
  • Respect and empathy
  • Diverse social interactions
  • Character development
  • Real-world communication skills

4. Learning Happens Everywhere, Not Just in Classrooms

"What looks like 'doing nothing' all day is actually more valuable in an adult's life than most of what is learned in textbooks."

Life as a Classroom. Homeschooling recognizes that learning is a continuous process that extends far beyond traditional academic subjects. Children learn through:

  • Everyday experiences
  • Family interactions
  • Travel and exploration
  • Practical life skills
  • Hands-on projects
  • Community involvement

Informal Learning Opportunities:

  • Cooking teaches math and science
  • Gardening provides biology lessons
  • Travel offers geography and cultural education
  • Budgeting teaches financial literacy
  • Household chores develop responsibility

Holistic Education. By integrating learning into daily life, homeschooling helps children develop:

  • Critical thinking skills
  • Problem-solving abilities
  • Practical knowledge
  • Emotional intelligence
  • Self-directed learning

5. Curriculum Can Be Tailored to Individual Learning Styles

"I can give my children the individualized time, teaching, and learning tools they need."

Personalized Learning Approaches. Homeschooling allows parents to identify and support their children's unique learning styles, which may include:

  • Visual learning
  • Auditory learning
  • Kinesthetic learning
  • Tactile learning
  • Mixed learning styles

Adaptive Teaching Strategies:

  • Using multi-sensory materials
  • Providing hands-on experiences
  • Allowing different pacing
  • Incorporating individual interests
  • Addressing specific challenges

Curriculum Flexibility. Parents can:

  • Mix and match curriculum resources
  • Use online platforms
  • Incorporate educational technology
  • Adjust teaching methods
  • Provide one-on-one attention

6. Parents Are the Best Teachers for Their Children

"There is nobody in this world who cares more about our children's future than Monica and me."

Unique Parental Advantage. Parents possess inherent strengths in teaching their children:

  • Deep understanding of individual needs
  • Emotional connection
  • Ability to provide personalized attention
  • Flexible teaching approaches
  • Continuous observation and adaptation

Teaching Beyond Academics:

  • Character development
  • Emotional intelligence
  • Life skills
  • Moral guidance
  • Personal values

Overcoming Self-Doubt. Parents can successfully teach their children regardless of:

  • Formal education level
  • Previous teaching experience
  • Subject matter expertise

7. Homeschooling Provides Opportunities for Character Development

"Our responsibility—I like to think of it as our privilege—to train our children and shape their character is the main reason we homeschool."

Intentional Character Building. Homeschooling allows for focused character development through:

  • Daily interactions
  • Shared responsibilities
  • Values-based education
  • Consistent modeling
  • Immediate feedback

Character-Building Strategies:

  • Teaching life skills
  • Encouraging responsibility
  • Developing work ethic
  • Promoting empathy
  • Fostering resilience

Whole-Person Education. Homeschooling emphasizes:

  • Emotional growth
  • Spiritual development
  • Social skills
  • Moral reasoning
  • Personal accountability

8. Technology and Resources Make Homeschooling Accessible

"There are thousands of homeschooling resources on the Internet that blow my mind."

Abundant Learning Resources:

  • Online curriculum
  • Educational websites
  • Virtual classes
  • Streaming educational content
  • Digital learning platforms

Cost-Effective Options:

  • Free online resources
  • Library materials
  • Used curriculum
  • Community support groups
  • Shared educational materials

Technology Benefits:

  • Flexible learning schedules
  • Access to global education
  • Interactive learning experiences
  • Personalized learning paths
  • Collaborative opportunities

9. Overcoming Challenges Requires Creativity and Commitment

"I love homeschooling! Do I get tired? Do I get jealous of the other moms? Do I get impatient? Yes, yes, and you bet. But is it worth it? A thousand times yes!"

Common Challenges:

  • Time management
  • Burnout
  • Self-doubt
  • Financial constraints
  • Balancing multiple responsibilities

Coping Strategies:

  • Seeking support groups
  • Flexible scheduling
  • Realistic expectations
  • Self-care
  • Continuous learning

Maintaining Motivation:

  • Celebrating small wins
  • Focusing on long-term goals
  • Adapting approaches
  • Maintaining perspective
  • Supporting each other

10. Homeschooling is About More Than Academic Education

"What do you want your children to become when they grow up?"

Holistic Development Goals:

  • Lifelong learning
  • Critical thinking
  • Emotional intelligence
  • Personal passion discovery
  • Character formation

Beyond Traditional Metrics:

  • Individualized success
  • Meaningful relationships
  • Practical life skills
  • Intrinsic motivation
  • Personal growth

Long-Term Benefits:

  • Strong family bonds
  • Personalized education
  • Adaptability
  • Self-directed learning
  • Confidence

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Review Summary

3.73 out of 5
Average of 500+ ratings from Goodreads and Amazon.

So You're Thinking about Homeschooling presents diverse homeschooling approaches through fictional family stories. Readers appreciate its non-judgmental tone and comprehensive overview of methods, curricula, and family situations. Many find it encouraging and informative, especially for those new to homeschooling. The book's conversational style is praised by some but considered overly cheesy by others. While predominantly Christian-focused, it's seen as valuable for readers of all backgrounds. Some criticize its outdated information and lack of representation for non-Christian or lower-income families.

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About the Author

Lisa Whelchel is an American actress, singer, songwriter, author, and public speaker. She gained fame for her role as Blair Warner on the NBC sitcom "The Facts of Life" from 1979 to 1988. After her acting career, Whelchel became a Christian author and speaker, focusing on parenting, homeschooling, and faith-based topics. She has written several books, including "So You're Thinking about Homeschooling" and "Creative Correction." Whelchel homeschooled her own children and draws from her personal experiences in her writing. She has also appeared on reality TV shows and continues to be involved in various entertainment and speaking engagements.

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